Are good looking men sex gods?

Are good looking men better in bed? One of my girlfriends seems to think that good looking men are better in bed. I don’t know where she has got this idea from, but I am not sure that it is true at all. Personally I think that she loves to spend time making love to good looking men as they are easier on the eye. I cannot say that I have found that it makes any difference at all if a guy is good looking or not. It is a bit like saying that all good looking guys have great personalities. Well, I have met some good looking guys at https://cityofeve.com London escorts, who have not had such nice personalities.

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There are a lot of cliches floating around out there. When I was younger, I thought that I would only ever go out with good looking guys, and meet my price. But since, I joined London escorts I have learned that is not true at all. All of the guys who are sort of average looking seem to be a lot nicer. My current boyfriend is a complete nerd, and does not look that great, but we have a great time together. In the end, you stop seeing somebody’s looks and just them for who they are instead.

When it comes down to love, I think that a great personality is far more important than anything else. One of my favorite dates at London escorts is a guy who is not good looking at all. But, he has that kind of personality that would just melt your heart. When he comes around to see me, I know that I am going to have a good time. We just totally click and have tons of fun together on our dates.

I also find that guys who are not so great looking are much more generous. Many of my dates at London escorts like to spoil me with different presents. When I look at all of the nice things that I have received during my time here at London escorts, it is clear that all of the most generous presents have come from guys who are not totally in love with their looks. From my point of view, it means that they are given from the heart, and I think that is more important than anything. I just love that.

Okay, lots of girls do go out with guys because they are good looking. It is a bit like showing them off to your girlfriends I suppose. But, I have learned so much about stuff like love at London escorts, that I stick to Mr Average. One thing is for sure, I have find my man. He may be a complete nerd, but as they say, one day the nerd will rule the world. This nerd does not need to rule the world, he rules my heart and that is enough for me. You should never ever be too greedy when it comes to finding the right partner for you.

Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

stay-goThis question in the title of this blog is a tough one. I think every marriage is different, and the ways each one of us are able to handle these types of large questions – especially when our marriages have deteriorated to the point where we’re asking them in the first place – depends on our relationship, our makeup, and just who we are in general.

I have seen couples who got through affairs and I have seen couples who haven’t. My friend Rick Reynolds runs AffairRecovery.com, a great organization that’s helping with this issue. He spells out the 6 different types of affairs here.

A lot of times there are underlying issues that lead to the affair (for example, we often discover that addiction is present for a lot of people who cheat). Whether you stay or go is going to be up to you and no one else (Tweet This).

No matter who we are, we’re going to make mistakes; the tendency to do that is only going to increase when you’re dealing with the aftermath of an affair. In this terrific article, Leslie Harde of Affair Recovery has spelled out twenty common mistakes that a hurt spouse can make:

  1. Believing that, once your spouse agrees to end the affair or the behavior, it is truly ended.
  2. Demanding that your spouse pledge 100% commitment to the marriage right at the moment of disclosure.
  3. Bludgeoning your spouse with guilt, thinking that this will be helpful.
  4. Drawing too much security from changed phone numbers and email addresses.
  5. Believing that you can keep your mate safe and away from temptation.
  6. Trying to compete with the affair partner, pornography, or other behavior.
  7. Trashing the affair partner.
  8. Trying to convince your spouse that nobody will ever love him/her as much as you do.
  9. Using your children or grandchildren as pawns.
  10. Beating up the unfaithful mate with guilt, shame, or the opinions of others to keep them from leaving.
  11. Making threats.
  12. Trying to drive the affair partner off by personal confrontation.
  13. Contacting the affair partner and then believing them.
  14. Believing there is a simple formula or a set course to fix the problem.
  15. Believing that the threat of exposure will be enough to convince your mate to quit the behavior.
  16. Trying to get all the unfaithful spouse’s friends on your side.
  17. Trying to “woo” your spouse back and expecting instant gratitude and immediate results.
  18. Believing that you, the faithful spouse, are “blameless” and the only one who has things to forgive.
  19. Believing that your unfaithful mate will find you more appealing if you get attention from others.
  20. Believing that if you, the faithful spouse, should or can do the same thing

You should really check out that whole article, and if your marriage – or the marriage of someone you know or love – is being affected by infidelity, be sure to check out Recover.org.

For those of you who are not dealing with affair: thank God. We have a great workshop for married couples that can help strengthen your relationship and draw the two of you even closer together. It’s called Fighting for My Marriage. You can learn more about that workshop at FightingforMyMarriage.com.

At XXXchurch, we believe strong marriages are a cornerstone for individual freedom, so please check out these great resources and do the work you need to do to keep your marriage going strong.

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