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I think that you should stop worrying about your fetish and come to see me at Wandsworth escorts instead. Sure, I know that you may have another fetish and not share mine, but I am more than happy to help. During my time with Wandsworth escorts I have met some interesting men, and I have even met a man who enjoyed repairing clocks in the nude. Did I enjoy being his assistant? I really did enjoy seeing him working with his tools.

 

Now if you would like to explore my fetish and have a really good time with one of the more unusual girls at Wandsworth escorts from https://charlotteaction.org/wandsworth-escorts/, you need to be a good boy. Mind you, you don’t have to come to see me. If you like, we can use your place to have some fun in. I guess you may not have heard of a dominatrix who likes to clean before… well, I do like to clean. What will happen when you employ me as your house cleaner? Well that all depends on how dirty your house is when I arrive on the doorstep.

 

Don’t worry, I will be a good girl until I get in through your front door. Your neighbors may wonder what I carry in my bags, and if they were to take a look, I think that they would be surprised. You see, I always make sure that I bring with me all of the house cleaning equipment that we will need. But that is not all. Like all of the other girls from Wandsworth escorts, I do have a surprise or two to share as well, and of you are a bit like me, I think that you will enjoy them.

 

One thing that I will have to say about my surprises, is that they are meant to keep you on your toes. There is no way that we are going to stop until your entire house is clean. This is a very special service that you have ordered from Wandsworth escorts, As you are paying for me to be your house cleaning companion, I think that it is about time that you stepped up to the mark. This may indeed mean a lot of hard work for you, and I want to make sure that we do a good job.

 

How often should you call this special service from Wandsworth escorts? It all depends on how dirty your house gets. I have met gentlemen who have very dirty homes. In that case, I need to come around more often and that should be obvious to you. But if you don’t really get it, I think that we should talk about on our first date. After all, you don’t want to be the man with the dirtiest house on the street. When we meet for the first time, I will take a look at your house, and if I find it to be very dirty. I will make sure that I come around more than once a week so that you can keep it nice and clean…

2 Questions to Ask Yourself If You Want Your Marriage to Thrive

When a couple gets married, they know a lot about one another. But their relationship winds up being built as much upon their lack of knowledge about one another as it is upon that existing knowledge.

Couples walk into every marriage with a set of assumptions and expectations about their spouse that will inevitably bring the relationship to a fork in the road with several paths to take. How can you know which path is the right one?

Ask yourself these two questions:

1. What are you protecting?

If I may speak for husbands a bit (seeing that I am one), the road we most often take is the one where we begin to divide ourselves into pieces. Some pieces we share with our spouse, and some we hold in secret for the sake of avoiding the destruction of a façade we’ve built.

We take this road because in some unconscious way, the fear of what might happen were we to be truly vulnerable feels far worse than a life lived half in the dark, which is akin to death by paper-cuts or some sort of time-release suicide.

The road less taken – the one that makes all of the difference – is what some call “The Way of the Cross.” In my life, I started by asking myself what I was trying to protect or save by holding back the truth about who I am, what I desire, what I struggle with, or what I believe to be beautiful, sexy, powerful, hideous, moving, repulsive, hurtful, or confusing. I realized I was trying to preserve something that actually needed to die.

If my marriage couldn’t survive the truth about me – the whole truth – then I didn’t want it anymore. I realized that time-release suicide wasn’t the life I desired.

2. Is your life worth dying for?

And so, after some careful thought and prayer, one day, I told my wife, “We need to talk.” I planned what I was going to say carefully and prepared myself for destruction. I focused on not letting my ego get in the way to stop the honesty, either by holding back or by trying to steal away my wife’s right to experience whatever she was about to experience. She was going to have questions about my porn use. They wouldn’t be fun to answer. But I was going to answer them. All of them if need be.

I wasn’t even sure if this was the healthiest way to approach it, but at the time, I needed to let it all hit the ground and break. And if we were able to get through the conversation alive, I was ready to face the next day and move forward. It wasn’t my job to decide for my wife whether she was ready to move forward. I knew I would have to wait for her, allow her to hurt, and allow her to face her own demons, just like I was determined to do.

That was six years ago. I now live in a marriage that can best be described as home. There is nothing in the shadows – and it turns out that letting all of my crap hit the floor and shatter into a million pieces – and allowing her to see that – was the beginning of the birthing of something new in my life and in our marriage. It turns out my wife was stronger than I thought she was. And so was I.

Courage to all of those who are ready to die for the sake of living. May your bruises be blessed. Now tell your wife: “We gotta talk.”

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What Do I Do When I Catch My Husband Looking at Porn?

I wish you were here right now, so I could look you in the eyes, take you by the hand, and assure you of a few things that I think you need to hear.

I would begin by telling you how terribly sorry I am that you even need to read this blog post. I am sorry that your husband didn’t come to you and confess his struggle, but that you had to discover it on your own.

I bet I know what you’re thinking: Is he truly sorry because of what he did, or is he sorry he got caught?

It’s normal for a wife to wonder how much longer he would have kept this little secret or if he would have ever come clean.

This is a question you’ll never have an answer for, so it’s best to set it aside in lieu of the question that has answers: What do I do when I catch my husband looking at porn?

1. Rest assured that your husband’s use of pornography is not about you

I hope he has already told you this, but I suspect you’re not so sure. Believe it. Pornography is a selfish act meant to meet his own perceived needs. That means you are not in competition with digitally enhanced images of other women. This is not about your appearance, your sexual availability, or your competence in the bedroom. You do not need to be a size 8, get a tummy tuck, or engage in sexual acts that make you uncomfortable.

2. Expect to be bombarded by a host of emotions

It’s entirely possible that since you caught your husband you have experienced anger, fear, sadness, depression, and guilt –and the pain feels incomprehensible. If you’re anything like me, you’ve found yourself saying and doing things you never thought imaginable. I was undone when I discovered my husband’s addiction, and I alternately cried until I made myself physically sick and raged like a crazy woman. (Not my proudest moment.)

Above all, you need to know that there is hope and that God is big enough to meet all of your needs. 1 Thessalonians 1:2-3 reminds us that our endurance, patience, and perseverance are inspired by our hope in our Lord Jesus Christ. Believe me when I tell you that His long arm of mercy can and will reach you and pluck you out of this miry pit.

3. Your husband’s use of porn will not go away if you simply ignore it, chalking it up to “boys will be boys”

God gives us a standard for marriage in the Bible. It’s that standard that causes you to think, “A faithful, loving husband doesn’t do this.” While the word confront doesn’t sound very loving, leaving your husband in this sin isn’t a loving response either. You need to tenderly confront your husband about his use of pornography.

Some women need to confront the issue immediately while others require some time to process what they’ve discovered before they can discuss it. There is no right or wrong time, as long as you don’t avoid or deny the issue. Don’t be surprised if your emotions bubble to the surface and you find yourself crying or fighting mad. Exhale. Remember that you are in a battle, but this is a battle not between you and your husband, but a battle between the two of you against pornography.

4. Find safe support

It is important that you find someone to talk to, and the first person should be God. Ask Him to direct your path in this situation. This is not the time to broadcast this to everyone you meet, but you do need support. Your best confidants will be those who are equipped to listen without judgment, and preferably someone who has experience with this. If your husband is committed to restoring your marriage and he is taking obvious steps in the right direction, I strongly encourage you to consult him about who and how much to tell.

5. Accept the fact that it is not in your power to fix this for your husband

God has given the Holy Spirit the task of conviction of sin. You are not responsible for your husband’s daily choices. Your job is to walk in obedience to the Word of God.  Turn to the Wonderful Counselor for healing your own heart. You’ve experienced a painful betrayal and you need to trust yourself into His care. When you arrive at a place of healing, you will be in a better position to create an environment that promotes healing in your marriage. Leave your husband in God’s hands. He’s got this one.

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